Author Archives: Sassybear

Trip the Flight San-tastic

First, a big happy birthday to the only girl to ever steal my heart, my precious pawed princess, my fair lady licks-a-lot, and all around paw-some pet and gal (puppy) pal, miss Rita Mae, who turns 9 today. How are we … Continue reading

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Whittle while you work

A small milestone as I slowly whittle away the days until retirement: as of today, there are 2,500 days until I can retire. Fortunately, I will not be at work the bulk of the next 4 weeks, for a variety … Continue reading

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Independence Gay

How do the gays celebrate the 4th of July? Let me show you how we do it, Sassybear style. First, we organize our closet and drawers: Sorted socks… …uncluttered undies… …and organized outer garments. Then we scour the master bath: … Continue reading

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Thank you Stonewall rioters

If not for the brave queers who resisted and rebelled, I would not be who, what, or where I am today: a 48 year old, out gay man, married to another out gay man for almost 20 years, openly gay … Continue reading

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Hometown Pride

My oldest brother and his girlfriend are visiting for a few days, from Arizona, and staying with us. We took them to the local Farmers’ Market this morning, in the nearby city of Troy, and were pleasantly surprised to see … Continue reading

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World Giraffe Day June 21

Today is World Giraffe Day. World Giraffe Day is an annual event initiated by Giraffe Conservation Foundation to celebrate the longest-necked animal on the longest day or night (depending on which hemisphere you live) of the year – June 21st … Continue reading

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Look what cane in the mail today: One month from today, we’ll be tucking these bad boys into our carry-ons and heading to San Diego. Can’t wait!

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FYI: All are Welcome!

For the record, I support everyone’s right to be who they are and love who they want, including: heterosexual, cis-gendered, bisexual, homosexual, lesbian, transgender, polyamorous, asexual, pansexual, monogamous, open relationships, theists, atheists, agnostics, binary, non-binary, gender-queer, naturists, and everything and … Continue reading

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This article was in our AARP magazine this month and we got a kick out of it.

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