I wrote this in college. I think I got what I wanted…
All I want
Cartoons on Saturdays in pajamas
Brie on a blanket listening to symphonies in tuxedoes
Going out dancing, dancing at home
Running up down escalators and washing dogs
Playing Frisbee in the park
Getting frisky in the dark
Sex as an option, not a requirement
Crying at sad movies
Visiting old friends and making new ones
Playing tennis, going sledding
Painting landscapes, reading comic books
Growing flowers, living life one day at a time
Working hard, playing fair, telling jokes
Laughing until it hurts and crying until it doesn’t
Talking and listening
Wearing plastic rings and paper hats
Being a partner, friend, confidante, and lover
Feeling acceptance and having expectations
Needing space, not distance
Being interesting, not impressive
Honesty, not perfection
Picking dandelions on warm summer days
Running through fields of tall grass
Sitting in silence
Hearing the rustling leaves and singing birds
Watching leaves fall, trying on sweaters
Staying outside until it’s too cold
Coming inside for cocoa
Cuddling under warm blankets
Making breakfast, playing records
Singing in and out of tune
Shopping for bargains, for presents, for fun
Making bread
Playing scrabble, coloring
Calling you right after you leave to say I miss you
Having the chance to miss you
Watching movies, discussing them
Over coffee and cookies
Going to museums, concerts, and airports
Taking pictures, making albums and scrapbooks
Trading massages
Kissing and hugging
Talking about dreams, sharing disappointments
Watching snow fall, making snow angels
Taking hot baths
Champagne and shrimp tonight
Beer and burgers tomorrow
Support for what I try
Not criticism for what I don’t
Baking pies, building shelves, sewing curtains
Teaching me, learning you
Powerful, impressive, honest, deep. I love it. Can you tell?
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Thanks. Was a blast to uncover this, and cool to realize how much of it I actually got.
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I’d guess that despite all the years in-between the list today would hardly have changed at all [maybe the playing tennis, but could still be there] – though you’ve acknowledged this in your added comment above. Few of us could say the same. Well done – and most interesting to read.
I made out a list of aspirations when I was about 20, though not in poem form. One item I do recall was to get married [to a girl – as yet unidentified] in a particular cathedral with the most lavish ceremony imaginable. I blush to recollect such. .
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While I never fancied myself a poet, I wrote a handful of poems, mostly about men I loved/lost/lusted after or being gay in a hostile world. It was interesting to rediscover and read through them. Yes, this list was a sort of manifesto of might-bes fir my life. And it was a fairly accurate forecast for what I’d do. And feel no bluster at your aspirations. Many of us were force fed the lie that are only path to happiness was with a woman.
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You were emotionally and precociously mature enough to acknowledge your true self at an earlier age than a lot of us, though of course this led to problems which for us closeted folk weren’t to manifest until years later – like as when I came out in my late 20s, me hopelessly trying to stress that I really WAS hetero in all those wasted years before then. Couldn’t have been much ‘fun’ for you to lay yourself open to the then hostile world [still there, I know] around you at such a delicate stage in your own development.
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you saw your future with jeffrey at an early age. and now look at you!
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That makes a great bucket list too when you think about it.
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As poetry goes I will stick with Yeats (hohoho); as a bucket list – well done!
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Ouch! I guess I opened myself up to that swipe. I’ll stick to dog pics from now on.
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